Undoubtedly, orgasm is a much more automatic response for men than women. Nearly all men can climax without difficulty but women are not built that way. Unfortunately, not everyone knows this all-important fact and this has made so many women believing that there is something wrong with them. Sex therapists say most of them are absolutely normal. They say unlike males, most female have to learn to reach orgasm. Research has shown that most young women do not manage to climax until some considerable time after they have started sexual activity.
There are various types of orgasm. These include clitoral stimulation, the G-spot stimulation (you can find the G-spot inside you, on the front of your vaginal wall), simultaneous orgasm and multiple orgasm. Research has shown that in fact majority of females can have a series of climaxes, if they are happy and relax in the relationship and if the partner is willing to stimulate them to come again and again. However, ability to have multiple orgasm comes with age. It is unusual at the age of 20, but many women in their 40s, 50s and 60s can do it.
So how can a man help his partner achieve orgasm?
Most women need stimulation of the clitoris. This is the part of them that would have turned into penis, had they developed as males and it is Justas important to the women as the penis is to a man. Remember that love, romance, cuddling and a good atmosphere turn women on in the early stages of a sex session- just as your caresses does.
Take your time to caress her breast. Although, a few women learn to climax through breast fondling alone.
Give her oral sex- Most women adore this and they claim they cannot come unless a man ‘goes down’ on them. Don’t be too proud to ask to show you what she wants.
Don’t hesitate to use a vibrator, if she likes the idea. The new tongue vibrators may be helpful. Have some sessions, where you encourage her to take the initiative and decide the agenda. If you loose control and come before her, do try to summon some energy to kiss and stimulate her, so that she can climax too. Do tell her that she is marvelous, sexy and beautiful.
Having an organism is a lovely feeling, you are entitled to it. But it is not easy to do if you are uptight, tired, stressed or unhappy in your relationship. Try to have a happy and relax relationship.
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